What is your best/ most creative/ thrifty decorating/ organizing trick?
Mine: I have an empty square box of tissues that matches my kitchen, it is where I keep plastic shopping bags. While they are useful this ensures that I can't keep to many, and it looks great in the kitchen!
I started Flying this summer, and it fell by the wayside when I my depression and anxiety acted up again. So now my house is in total CHAOS again. It's BAD. After many med changes I am beginning to feel better, and feel like I can, again, try digging out of this mess, and starting habits that will assist me in not getting this far stuck in a hole again. For a week now I have slowly been attempting to do very small things.
Today , again, shined my sink, and did a load of laundry, I went through TONS of mail, and did a 27 fling boogie, and ran the dish washer. I stuck to the 15 min rule. 15 mins of work, followed by a . Rince a repeat a few times if you will.
Have any of you fallen off the wagon and had to get back on?
Any advice for staying on it this time?
Any other fly babies struggling with depression and/ or anxiety? How do you make it work?
Have a lovely night,
I'm totally frustrated with my roommate.
Background: I recently bought a house. I have never been good at cleaning. Frankly I suck at it. It has never been something i have had any urge to do... but a few weeks ago I became totally overwhelmed and was so sick and tired of living and CHAOS, that I decided to make a change.
I'm still new to the Fly Lady was of life, and there are still things that are a challenge, but I'm doing OK...
Right now I'm totally frustrated with my roommate though. She does not clean. Period. SHe has had many days off, and has spent time cleaning her room, but not any of the common area. Not any of the boxes in dining room that i have asked and asked and asked for her to take care of. Earlier this month she assured me she was going to clean to shower and tub after she dyed her hair "there is no point in cleaning the tub before I dye my hair, it will just get gross again." I believed her and have patient been waiting for her to dye and clean. Well today I come home from work to find black hair dye everywhere in the bathroom sink (that I have been swiping at least every other day) and hair dying gloves in the shower, and no... the tub and shower have not been taken care of!!!
I'm so frustrated! She is a friend of mine, but this is totally making me have rather homicidal thoughts about her! It also sort of is the icing on the cake. There are plenty of other things i have to ask her to do again and again and again.
I just don't know what to do anymore! I'm not good at the confrontation thing. I have asserted myself about this a few times already. I just don't know what do do next! How do you flybabies deal with situations like this?
I just shined my first sink!
It was anxiety provoking to start I admit. I had lots of pots and pans to clean that had been sitting my my sink.
They are done!!!
I also would like to ask if there are any other green FLY babies out there. I have been working very hard on decreasing my footprint on the world, and intend on using all natural products during this process... and cheap ones too. I'm VERY house poor right now!
To shine my sink I used apple cider vinegar (ACV) that has had sun with cloves in it and baking soda. It smells wonderful, is antimicrobial (cloves) and a natural disinfectant (ACV). The baking soda acts is abrasive, so it helped me really get the gunk out of my sink.
I also will be using newspaper scraps to shine my mirror in my morning. Apparently it works better then paper towel and doesn't leave any streaks of fuzz. I have yet to try this method out, but will give you a report if you'd like.
Are there any other green FLY babies out there? Do you have tips for me? How do you work being green into your FLY routines?
I *think* I'm ready to FLY
So this week, I took advantage of having a day off to make a Big Push in cleaning out my office/craft room…
Finally got the old computer taken apart and boxed up. Will ship to its new home this week. The shipping cost is going to be Large…But then I calculate home much it would have cost me to actually BUY the computer all those years ago. Instead, since it was a gift/long term loan, I am happy to pay the shipping cost now in exchange for several years of free happy computing.
Gave real thought to the ways I am most successful in cleaning. Since I have a naturally tendency towards Sorting, I went with that. I think this might be like the Zones idea…but in my case it’s by Type of Mess. Is there a name for that? I dragged out some large Rubbermaid bins, a big trash can, and a cardboard box. Keep, Donate, Sell, Trash, and Recycling. I worked two solid hours yesterday and, although it would probably be hard for others to see the difference, **I** can tell.
Had to move the bins/etc. back into the room last night (out of the hallway) as we ended up with overnight company, but those puppies are coming back out after work and I’m going to continue to plug away. My deal with myself: no new furniture or shelving or any other "helpful" organizing purchases until I’ve actually downsized some of the crap.
Cute moment: yesterday, as I was zooming down the stairs, dropping cables in the shipping box, grabbing bins, etc., and running back upstairs, my husband yelled out, "Fly, Lady! Fly!!!"
It's nice to have support from the Home Team.
I have some furniture I'm "inheriting" coming on Tuesday. Until then, I'll be doing some zone work, combined with a bunch of 15 min decluttering sessions. I can't really clean anything until I get rid of all of this clutter. I know that now. Before, I would just try to organize the clutter and apparently, you can't do that.
So, here starts my 4th or 6th time restarting the program. Each time I learn something new, either something about myself, or develop a habit that works for me. This time, I WILL maintain my routines. (Or at least try?)
I'm Tiffany and I'm a full time student. Right now I'm working on an evaluation paper for my English class and I'm doing it on the Fly Lady program :) I need some help though. If you could take a few minutes to complete this 10 question survey I would really appreciate it. I need at least 20 people to complete it, so please do it if you can. Thank you in advance!
1. How did you find out about Fly Lady?
2. How long have you been a part of the Fly Lady program?
3. What do you like best about the program?
4. How do you think the program could improve?
5. Do you feel like the instructions and activities are helpful? If so, what makes them helpful?
6. Do you feel inspired by the testimonials and attitude of Fly Lady? If so, what inspires you most?
7. Do you feel that this program is supportive? If so, how does it support you?
8. Who do you think can benefit from this program and why?
9. Have you purchased any books or items from Fly Lady? If so, how do you like them and are they helpful?
10. Have you tried any other programs before this? If so, do you feel like Fly Lady is better and why?
Please feel free to add any other comments.
Thank you so much for your time and help!